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Local domestic violence victim advocates say abuse in teen relationships presents a problem in Lubbock and across the country - a problem those advocates plan to address more aggressively when school starts again in the fall.Women's Protective Services, a local nonprofit group, will launch the "Expect Respect" program to include student-led awareness campaigns and support groups.With a torrent of verbal abuse he started smashing everything in sight. I’m speaking out because the statistics are still shocking and unacceptable. Even without any history of it, anyone can become a victim of domestic violence. But there are warning signs that shouldn’t be ignored. ‘I’ll pay.’That evening we went to a popular bar where a band was playing.Instead, ours would be a whirlwind four-and-a-half year relationship that descended into a dysfunctional and destructive vortex. But, ultimately, it almost cost me my life when, years later, he strangled me.Although the hints were there that this relationship was volatile, I batted the truth away. The romantic, wonderful person hooks and reels you in. In my case I might have been flirting outrageously with a man (whom I’d barely said one word to).
And some of those teens might not realize the dysfunctional nature of the relationship, although it could lead to a lifelong cycle of violence.
They sob, bring you flowers or chocolates to make up for it, vow to never do it again. ’They say your life flashes before you just before you die. It was a combination of fear, now I knew what he could do to me, and a yearning for my baby to grow up with a father.
Ben kept telling me he ‘needed my help more than ever to change’, which was music to my ears. He promised things would be different now and I wanted so badly for us to be the happy family he’d said we’d be.
I took a deep breath, walked over and said ‘hello’. Perhaps a more secure girl would have walked away from this hot and cold tap right there and then.
A little older than me, he was already a successful actor. I first noticed him standing alone in the corner of the room, nursing a drink in his hand. There was something so innocent about him, so vulnerable. I felt winded, such was the intensity of the connection we had. Although the room was full of gorgeous models and actresses, his attention was only on me. He brought flowers and love-bombed me again with how much he needed someone like me in his life.